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SHE BECAME STRONG ON HER OWN WITH GOD

Growing up was normal, good and Godly parents, nice neighborhood, she was just having a normal childhood but things started changing, as early as in her primary one when her parents stopped having time for her and leaving her in the hands of useless maids, yes maids because were always sacking one after the other due to one thing or the other.
 Ok now, here is her story, in primary one, at a particular period, she carried her hair for two weeks which is unusual and within those two weeks,during the course of carrying the hair, she was at the assembly ground and they usually call out pupils with rough hairdos, unfortunately for her she was being called out for her rough hair in front of the crowd, the stupid teachers then told everyone to laugh at her and they did...that was the beginning of a little girl's low self esteem, she cried all through that day and no one cared... imagine, this happened in primary one, another again in this same class, she was given an assignment and of everybody in class, she was the only one that didn't do hers', why? because the housemaid was the only one with her instead of her parents, they traveled.. this housemaid was an illiterate. On that day, the teacher was checking assignments, she found out this girl hasn't done anything, she called one of the most feared teachers,UNCLE ZABACHA who she instructed to flog her twelve strokes of the cane on one hand as a lesson to all, this was in primary one so imagine how she was feeling with everyone laughing and shaming her as instructed and the pain in one palm.. she started developing hate towards everyone and promised herself she will deal with her teacher and uncle zabacha..lol
In her pry. three, her teacher called her a prostitute just because she was playing with her class boys (football) and she mistakenly shot at the teacher and her teacher flogged her..ehn before I forget this little girl never cried again while being flogged after she was flogged in her pry one..yh.. so as a teacher, if you are flogging her..you are wasting your time.... so the girl got angry, she didn't do anything physical but she made her teacher loose her job! how? the teacher was having an affair with the principal of the same school.. don't get confused..the school had both primary and secondary  sections..yh and the wife of this principal was the current headmistress of the primary school..
one day in class he came around and the teacher told everyone to rest their head, which they did including this girl but she is stubborn so she was just tossing her head round and caught them kissing..lol...so the next day she started spreading the news( "in her voice" aunty Justina was kissing the principal) and made sure his wife heard it, which she did..long story cut short, she was sacked.
 Her parents were mostly out of town and didn't know what their child was capable of doing.. more things happened in pry. school but I just wrote little, she stopped having friends, always alone, she was dropping academically, when she goes home with a bad result, her dad would flog her thinking she was unserious but the truth is that they caused it, for me oo.. what I think.. leaving a child in the hands of maids at an early stage is totally WRONG.. because they don't even care, and the child will have no one to cry or express herself to... the little girl has a good heart but she grew up being a loner too, her relationship with her parents are on a zero level cos they don't know her at all, not her best color or best food or her dreams in life..nothing , the only thing they knew is what she told them and by the time they wanted to get close, it was obviously late, the parents are born again and the mother is quite prayerful but I think God intervened in this girls' life cos she would have grown to b wayward from the way life was treating her cos there was just no time for her, only maids did, when one of her cousins made advances at her( didn't succeed) and even tried introducing his friend to her in her jss2 she politely declined but her parents knew none of these cos she felt there wasn't any need telling( the distance had started) ... just imagine not being around when she saw her first period.. it was so devastating for her.. her mother told her about it yes but when the girl started..she was in a boarding school and the mum was in same town but reluctantly left her in the hands of the hostel mistress.
IT WASN'T FUNNY.

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