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"some people build good relationship on bad foundation"

They always lie stupidly just to put you out of the way over some selfish desires..what i believe is no matter what you want to do, lying to someone you said is very important to you to get your way is just out of it and really bad.
 I know of someone that somehow derives lying to someone dear to him,even if he doesn't want to but has to, just because she doesn't give him everything he wants so he lies even though he knows she wants to spend time with him, now due to his LIES the friendship is dying and trust is being destroyed...he started building a good relationship on a bad foundation...they would have been the best of friends but his lies tore them apart..
 They were meant to hang out on the eve of her birthday and on her birthday but he had other plans and avoided her own birthday plans by lying to her and normally believed him but as usual nothing is hidden for ever, unfortunately for him the same day he lied she found out and was furious cause she takes her birthday so personal and he knows that which made her so angry..well from that day things never remained the same even if they reconciled but the trust is not there.
 I am not saying its wrong to plan or cancel things, anything can happen but before u arrange such, discuss and communicate with the person, look if this guy had told her his other plans she would have understood and probably made a better plan with him so everything doesn't crash but he lied and she found out and felt very stupid and unimportant and as usual its not the first time, so she decided to leave the friendship cos she is tired of being lied to all the time...they still talk but to her the friendship is dying if not dead or let me say they are just "there"..
 Lies destroys any form of relationship, if someone lies to u to either get to u or get away from u all the time or most times..LEAVE THAT PERSON..he or she is not worth the friendship and the trust will die slowly..
 Another one is a girl who plays two guys but loves one more, she also lies..obviously..but d thing is d one she loves more is of a  higher advantage cos she lies not to hurt him or anything, but she has been lying, thinking she is smart and all, as life would have it..she was caught and she couldn't hide it anymore..d guy she loved more felt extremely heart broken and of cos stupid so they broke up and it was never d same for her again.
Now for those that LIE..stop it!.. yes this might look like i am just talking and some excuses will just be popping up..its either YOU SHUT UP! or say the truth and bring in loyalty ..some people will start saying u lie in other not to hurt the person..yh shit happen..they should deal with it..it will pass, u might look bad but at least the person will see u as a sincere person and will believe u no matter what,the trust will b there, its even more painful if the person u lied to finds out,it will now b a sorry issue..hmm.. i hate lies so bad, u have no idea, trust me..LIES NEVER HIDE ANYTHING INSTEAD THEY EXPOSE YOUR TRUE PERSONALITY..i have said stop lying but it entirely up to u..so continue and see what will happen to u.
As for those that keeps swallowing the lies like food and knows..LEAVE THAT PERSON NOW!!
                                                        THANK YOU...😊👍
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