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SHE BECAME STRONG ON HER OWN WITH GOD(PART TWO)

Well, luckily for her, she was helped, taught by some lady known as the matron, taught her how to clean up, take a bathe, look fresh and she got very used to it. LIFE OF A TOM-BOY She grew up hating girls, to her girls were stupid, childish, sometimes she would say" Girls have fish brain" yea, that mentality made her get close to guys,dressed like them,walked like them, she understood them, liked them, she didn't know what it meant to have a crush or be crushed on, she was just living the life, she preferred playing ball  with the guys to sitting down talking about them with the girls, she didn't understand why girls would just stay and talk about people that cared less about them. To her, nothing meaningful came out of from their gossips and talks. Her favorite days were Saturdays, where she gets to have time with some senior guys, hostel masters talking about stuffs like wrestling, even if she didn't watch them or playing whot cards, sometimes football or
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SHE BECAME STRONG ON HER OWN WITH GOD

Growing up was normal, good and Godly parents, nice neighborhood, she was just having a normal childhood but things started changing, as early as in her primary one when her parents stopped having time for her and leaving her in the hands of useless maids, yes maids because were always sacking one after the other due to one thing or the other.  Ok now, here is her story, in primary one, at a particular period, she carried her hair for two weeks which is unusual and within those two weeks,during the course of carrying the hair, she was at the assembly ground and they usually call out pupils with rough hairdos, unfortunately for her she was being called out for her rough hair in front of the crowd, the stupid teachers then told everyone to laugh at her and they did...that was the beginning of a little girl's low self esteem, she cried all through that day and no one cared... imagine, this happened in primary one, another again in this same class, she was given an assignment and of e

Leave that person NOW!!

"some people build good relationship on bad foundation " They always lie stupidly just to put you out of the way over some selfish desires..what i believe is no matter what you want to do, lying to someone you said is very important to you to get your way is just out of it and really bad.  I know of someone that somehow derives lying to someone dear to him,even if he doesn't want to but has to, just because she doesn't give him everything he wants so he lies even though he knows she wants to spend time with him, now due to his LIES the friendship is dying and trust is being destroyed...he started building a good relationship on a bad foundation...they would have been the best of friends but his lies tore them apart..  They were meant to hang out on the eve of her birthday and on her birthday but he had other plans and avoided her own birthday plans by lying to her and normally believed him but as usual nothing is hidden for ever, unfortunately for him th

The WOMAN

  As a woman, you have a self respect to attain, contain, and maintain. WHY on earth should u beat up or confront a girl because of a man, we should be more like families, you do not see a tiger fighting another tiger over a zebra, they join forces.      My first boyfriend broke my heart and i was devastated, depressed and all, yes i wanted to kill him and i meant it, but, on the other hand my self respect was on the line and i had to be strong, when he had a new girl, i wanted to drown them both in acid but like i said, my self respect was astake so i held myself and kept on praying and with the help of my darling and sweet cousin i was getting better, it's been two years now and i am as strong as ever, i didn't go harassing the girl, a point came when we spoke which was not arranged but we did for some reason and it was cool and gradually things became better and i was free.      Look, it was not easy for me at all but one special thing that helped was the bible, someone l

Alittle about me

Hello everyone, kinda new here but will get very use to it. I created this blog as a means of reaching out to people, sharing ideas nd opinions, this will be of a great advantage to us. My name is Miss Asibe Ruth Oluchukwu Ayodele, i studied Medical laboratory science in Igbinedion University, Okada, Edo state. I am a christian, from Anambra state, family of five{5}, first born, only daughter of my sweet parents Engr and Mrs B.O. Asibe and i have two {2} awesome brothers. I thank God for everything. I will be posting stuffs here and i hope its works for the best. I know its difficult reading articles nd all for some people, it could get boring..lol... It happens to me some times but the most inportant thing is gaining and learning new things. This blog is really gonna help us all...i will really appreciate if its taken seriously.. I love u all nd God bless u plenty...muah!!!!